hey if ur reading this and ur in a bad spot mentally or anything i hope u feel better soon and have a good day
hey if u think trans girls aren’t girls then u can unfollow me bc u are 100% not wanted here
and if you think trans guys arent guys then you can skidaddle back to where u came from bro
and if you think nonbinary folks aren’t nonbinary or nonbinary “isn’t real”, don’t let the door hit you where mother nature split ya
Okay okay you wanna know WHY vent posts ARENT okay to reblog???
Because they spread them around like normal posts and soon everyone thinks its just a shitpost.
Everyone thinks its relatable content when really all the person wanted to do was get something off their chest.
You just exposed them and made it worse.
Could yall reblog this actually like
People reblog my vent posts for fun and I want this spread around so people know its not okay to do that
I grew up in a poly household. My mother was married to two men who loved her dearly and they were the best of friends. I use past tense due to the fact that one of my fathers passed away a few years back.
I grew up in one of the most stable, loving households I can imagine. I had tons of support from all three of my parents, I never felt alone, and I never felt confused about my parents relationship.
Were other people confused when I told them about my parents? Sure. Did it take some time for them to understand my parents relationship? Yep. And the reaction I got every single time from other kids once they understood? “That’s so awesome!”
Growing up in a poly house did not hurt me, confuse me, or make my life difficult. It sure as hell wasn’t abusive.
Healthy poly relationships do not hurt children.
It may only seem like one person, but they send a lot of messages and overwhelm you with clearly wrong but seemingly well supported info.
The trick they’re trying to pull has two steps:
Overwhelm: By sending you lots of messages all at once they intend to trigger anxiety and cause you to give less than waterproof answers. From here they can deconstruct your answers with a combination of technicalities and fallacies.
Colonize: By making you answer publicly they spread their ideas through your blog. Further by making you look bad they make an example of you and by ganging up through your asks they isolate you from support.
Block them all.
And after that optionally you can publicly debunk their argument without their input.
People who use these dogpiling methods don’t deserve your blog as a platform.
They want your time and energy and attention. Delete their asks immediately and block.
Block early, block often. Trust that they will be return to pee in your inbox again, and pull out the flamethrowers.
some 2016 retrospective
Leelah Alcorn’s blog was deleted and posts about her are being removed. Don’t stop spreading this. Reblog everything you can, post everything you can.
These are her pictures
here are some of her drawings
this is her note
Don’t let this die.
I don’t give a flying fart what type of blog you have, this is relevant for everyone.
This is awfull, all thought my parents also want me to be perfect, i cant come out to them as bi and that i have a girlfriend (yes i am a girl), because they dont really support lgbtq+ comunity, well they arent against it either… to hear that this poor person who knew what they were, stomped by their parents is unexceptable.
Please reblog this and know you are who you are, and no one gets to say otherwhise.